These culture differences between
malawian behave for white people is somehow unbelievable! Saturday we
invited our a friend to come to eat with us if he want, we didn't say
to him that we will pay the food but what happens is this: we ate and
had fun together, chatted and everything was nice. I ate first time
really good beef, usually they are so dry but this one was really
good one. Ok, then when we were paying our check and we of course all
pay our own bils, but somehow this boy didn't have even at all money
with him what was quite weard to me. Of course I was a bit sorry to
him, and felt like he was using us... To me it would be okey if that
boy would say at the first place that ”I'm sorry, but I don't have
money” so then we could have go to some cheap place and pay the
bilt for him, but who will come to eating with your friends to a
restaurant without having even money and expecting that your friends
will pay it? It just isn't fear. Why don't you just be honest and
say that sorry I don't have money?
Also one thing I don't understand,
there is so many malawian and african who wear really nice clothes.
And when I asked this boy that where does he bought his clothes he
told me some pretty expensive shops. So, why does he spent his money
for clothes and then doesn't have money for food? It's that the ego
is so big that you have to wear nicely and look good, even that you
don't have money. Seems to me pretty odd, because in Finland people
were nice, new clothes when they can afford them not so that after
they have buy them they are p-a. Even that I am white doesn't mean
that I am rich, I also have to work really hardly to get money.
Okey, now some nice news. Our journey
to Sambia was just so awesome! But I also felt that I was too little
time in Sambia, I didn't really saw much there for so little time.
So, our Safari trip to Botswana was really nice, but if I would do it
again I would do only 1 day trip there. First we went to a boat
safari and we saw like hippoes, elephants, lizard, crocodiles,.. It
was pretty nice to be there, and the view was amazing to taking those
photos on a boat.
Then we went to eating and after eating
we went to game drive for 5 hours. Well we had one stop but it was
already pretty long game drive. We saw much and much of animals there
but after 3 hours I felt pretty sleepy so I felt that 5 hours maybe
was s bit too long without real brakes. We saw lots of animals there
like a elephants (again), bumba, TIMON!!, a leopard, antilopes,
lions, mating turtles etc.
Then we did went to back to our camp.
Yes, we did stayed in to the WILD! Our camp was at the center of
national park and it was amazing. First when we came we had to put on
our sneakers that scorpions won't bite you. And then we sat with a
bonfire light and ate without even seing what you have on your plate.
Hahahaha, that felt a bit funny to me, when I always like to see what
I am eating to get more delight for eating. Only one thing wasn't so
nice in this safari tour. The second day we went to a game drive like
6.30 and drove about 3 hours. Then we went back to camp untill 16!!
So we were at the campus first eating a lunch and then just taking 3
hours sleeps because we just had to wait that we can go back to
Sambia. That was pretty odd to me. I can't understand why the first
day was so full of safari trips and then the second day only one?!
Why we had to wait like 6 hours at the camp? Can't understand!
Our camp in the national park |
lovely elephant |
Transport from Sambia to Malawi was perhaps my scariest bustrip in my Africa trip. First we went to that bus deposit at 4.30 am because that bus was supposed to live at 5am, but because this is africa nothing works correctly so the bus left like 7am. So we waited 2,5hours in the bus!!! Already feeling very very sweaty. When we finally left we found out that the driver has to be malawian driver. He drived like a crazy, like he was late for somehing. So we just hear toot when we reached every curl and saw some cows or other animals running away from our bus. That roud seems to me to be like a serpentine roud and really small, so I did felt a bit bad. When we had our stops we had only time to go to pee but not buy anything to eat so I was REALLY HUNGRY when we finally reached Malawi. We also had some problems at the border but luckily we didn't have to go back to Lusaka like the man there first said. We just waited for a while and then everything was great. After they had securitychecked our bus so we could continue going to Malawi. I was very thankfull for God that He sent angels to save our journey back to Malawi, it was pretty scary. And so that you will understand me how fast driver did drove was like this: when we left Malawi and went to Sambia that trip took 13hours, with some short stops. And when we came back and stopped like 2,5hours at the border that trip took only like 12hours, so as you can see he drove only like 9,5 hours! The trip distance was about 720km! So it was really fast!
This week we have only relaxed and
stayed at the pool for swimming and just hangout. And at the weekend
we went to one orphane house to helping the nannies for playing with
the kids, feeding them ans so oon. We also bought some food ans milk
powder to the kids and we had awesome time there. I also have finally
realised or at least I hope that it's this what have been in my heart
past a few weeks: poor, small kids. I want to help them so I have
been thinking of that I would come after I have graduated and help
these kids. God has put them into my heart <3
This last week has been kind of sad.
Everytime I met some friend she/he says that it's our last week, our
last saturday, or last sunday, or last monday etc. And everytime I
feel very sad. It has been so amazing experience to be here that I
don't really wanna go back!! Well, of course it's very nice to go to
back and see your family and your friends, but somehow I feel that my
heart is here. It melted when I was here, so I feel that it may stay
here... at least until I come back. It's so weard that first you miss
your home and now you don't even wanna go back to home. It's even so
nice that when we were at Lusaka, Zambia and came back to Malawi we
felt that we came back to home. KCN has become our home, it feels
like home and that feels it's so great. I have learn and see and feel
so many things that I can't even put on words, but definetly life
changing experience.
Also it's very very very nice to sleep
withour malaria net!!! I am so bored with it :D Every night I have to
put it and if I feel that I have to go to toilet then I have to crawl
away under the net and after toilet back under the net :D Also the
dust is so awful. I have to wear shoes all the time or else my feet
will be very dusty because floor is made with stones.
It's also very nice to take a shower
without wearing shoes :D Yeah! I have took a shower with my shoes
almost 3 months now! And when I am going home probably it will feel
weard when I don't need to put shoes. And there will be warm water!!
WUHUU! The problem is that when it's hot then also water is hot, and
when it's cold like rainy days then water is also very cold. So then
you don't feel that you want to take a shower, even that you are
sweaty. So it's pretty nice to go home and take nice hot shower and
go to a sauna, that is what I have missed some cold rainy days.
Sauna, my dearest friend :D hahaha. At least we did find Sauna here
in Malawi ;) In crossroad hotel!!!
men catching mangoes!!!! AH, I love them! |
And at the end of my blogg I have to
say that I have really enjoyed to writing this. Now my 30hours
journey back to home will start. I am so missing Malawi, my new
dearest friends,... Africa has totally stolen my heart! I love it!
Ah! God bless our journey that I will get home safetly! :) It was
funny that we were joking with Elina last weekend that now we have
our SUMMER holiday and when we are going back to Finland then we have
our WINTER holiday! So, winter holiday here I am coming!! Missed
Finland but kind of feeling that I would like to stay longer!!